Archive for May, 2006
It’s a Small World After All
Keith and I know the names of exactly four residents of St. Petersburg, all Buckner-affiliated. St. Pete is an eight-hour train ride from Moscow, a city of 10M inhabitants.
So today in Moscow, whom do we see among the 10M? Yes, one of the people we know from St. Pete! While eating lunch in the Starlight Diner – in walks Natasha from St. Pete, here soliciting a donation from Lincoln Motors for orphanages in St. Pete. To say we were stunned would be an understatement.
Naturally, we had to visit with Natasha bit before we left for the American Embassy to register Julia for U.S. citizenship. (She’s a citizen when the wheels of our plane touch U.S. soil, BTW.) And whom did we meet in the Embassy? One of the scores of adoptive parents we’ve grown to know these 22 months on the adoption.com Russian Adoption Parent Board! We heard the mother calling to three-year-old “Summer,” and I thought, “That sounds familiar. How many parents are naming their daughters ‘Summer?’” So I asked where she was from, which was Georgia, and then I knew for sure and blurted, “You’re RainyinGA from adoption.com!” She knew us as beckyww and keithww; we had a happy time comparing notes.
There were 20 – 25 families waiting with their kiddos in the Embassy office. A few older than Julia; most younger, none younger than 14 months since the rules have changed. Far more boys than girls. At least three families with much older children at home now refilling an empty or soon-to-be-empty nest. Several families with sibling sets. At least two families on their second Russian adoption trip. One two-year-old boy wearing a blue sweat suit that his mother informed me cost $150 at the nearby mall. He’d thrown up on his clothes in the car; they dashed in the mall to buy “something simple” to wear to the Embassy. “Wow, stuff is expensive here,” commented the mother. We agreed that we prefered to shop at our American fashion center – Target.
Before we left the Starlight Diner, Natasha asked Julia what she liked best about Red Square: Lenin’s Tomb, the beautiful grounds, the Kremlin, the young Pioneers demonstrating, etc.? Julia’s answer? “The fountains.” Yes, the child is half monkey (climbing fiend) and half fish (water entranced). Here’s a picture of her splashing in a fountain outside the Starlight diner today.
It’s a world of laughter, a world of tears Its a world of hopes, its a world of fear
Theres so much that we share That its time we’re aware
Its a small world after all
Thank you, Walt. We agree.
Sing to the Motherland
Happy Mother’s Day from Moscow! My day has been like the hot chocolate we had earlier today – bittersweet. After 22 months, we are happy to have custody of Julia. But I miss Rachel, Lois and Hannah terribly. Keith feted me with cards the girls made before we left. Generally Sharon and I play the games cum cards Hannah stuffs in my briefcase as surprises for the workdays. Sharon, sorry, you’re missing her “Feliz Dia De Madres” drawing game today.
My real Mother’s Day will start the minute our plane lands sometime later this week (Thursday, we think) in San Antonio. Shelley, if you’re late, I’m hitchhiking.
We all enjoyed our first cup of the popular hot chocolate sold in cafes – Julia especially so. It’s much, much thicker than our cocoa. It’s more like melted semi-sweet chocolate chips with a bit of milk mixed in. The demitasse spoon can almost stand upright in the cup. Hannah and I make a terrific homemade pound cake. I kept picturing it drizzled over that…..warm and steamy…..served on our Mickey Mouse dessert plates…in front of the TV for one of our family movie nights….with the kids scattered on their floor pillows and a nicely scented candle burning on the kitchen table and Rachel offering to brush my hair……sniff-sniff…..
Eating the chocolate was a full-body experience – face, hands, eyelashes, elbows…
We joined a throng of tourists to view “the dead guy,” as Keith so poetically described Lenin’s preserved body. No cameras or cell phones allowed. We descended stone stairs in a dark and humid hallway (“Not so fast, Keith!”) before entering a dimly-lit raised walkway around the body, encased in glass. Somber armed guards at attention in every corner. Frosty temperature. Deathly quiet. Really creepy. I kept expecting Lois to sneak up behind me and yell, “Boo!”
Later we toured the Kremlin grounds, which are huge and perfectly manicured. As we walked across the square where executions used to routinely occur, I couldn’t help but think of the blood and tears that had washed those cobblestones and flowed into those flowerbeds. That elderly woman ahead of us, so pensive – did she lose someone here? That man waving his hands and earnestly speaking to two young boys – was he relating some important family history? We were surprised by the presence of the large and lovely 15th century Assumption Cathedral adjoining that terrible courtyard. Did any butchers ever see irony in the acts performed in the shadows of those beautiful onion domes, with frescoes of the ultimate mother – the Madonna – looking on? Maybe no more so than when I sin wearing the cross that Konen gave me years ago.
The Assumption Cathedral (1475 – 79) was the country’s central place of worship, where the Russian Tsars and Emperors were crowned.
I’d like to send a special Mother’s Day wish to Vicki today, as she has cared for our kiddos this week. Next time I see her, I’ll be looking for that halo around her head, because she’s definitely qualified for sainthood this week with Scouts, Storytelling, Bush choir chaperoning, cake decorating, a trip to the mall, etc. I am profoundly thankful for 26 years of her friendship. And a second Mother’s Day wish to my good friend Shelley, who has stood “at the ready” to help at any time. Really, she’s been doing that for the 30 years I’ve known her. She attended Hannah’s 4th grade Talent Show this week – now folks, that’s love. And a final special Mother’s Day wish to my brilliant niece Sarah, who’ll be coming from Houston tomorrow to keep the girls until we get home. More importantly, she’ll be bringing two-year-old Laura with her to stay with them- and nothing brightens a room like Laura’s laugh.
Mother’s Day is a uniquely American holiday. So best wishes to all you mamas from this unique American celebrating in Mother Russia.
Sing to the Motherland, home of the free
Bulwark of peoples in brotherhood strong.
O Party of Lenin*, the strength of the people,
To Communism’s triumph lead us on!
*a.k.a., “The Dead Guy”
Red2 (That’s Red Square, People)
Our Buckner translator drove us to Red Square today. We toured St. Basil’s Cathedral, a marvel of 500-year-old architecture.
Shearer Hills Baptist It Ain’t….
We stopped in a working Russian Orthodox church, the Kazan Cathedral, to light candles. Juia knew knew not only to light the top wick but also to light the bottom wax to affix the candle to the holder. She was baptized Russian Orthodox last year by a priest who visits the children’s home monthly. While we will encourage her to make a believer’s profession in Jesus Christ, we also respect what she’s been taught to date.
Julia joined a group of children throwing coins over their shoulders while standing in a fixed stone compass on the grounds of Red Square. As they throw the coins, they make traditional wishes that they be able to return to this spot one day. I noticed an elderly babushka behind the children, quietly collecting the coins in a plastic sack (which cost one ruble at any store, BTW.) I’m thinking the Babushka Collective might have originated that tradition.
North, South, East or West – Throwing Stuff is Always Best!
As you’ve probably noticed – we’re able to post pictures again. Keith bought a cheapie digital because as he rightly stated, “We’re only going to be here once.” He also got a cord to transfer pictures from his cell phone. Here’s one of her on the St. Pete to Moscow train night before last.
Choooo-Choo…zzzzzzzzzzzzzz…………………..
Moscow is believed to have been founded in 1147 by Prince Yury Dolgoruky. It now boasts a population of 10M, including two misplaced Texans and one very small Russian. We are hoping to see more of the city tomorrow, before the hustle and bustle of Embassy appointments on Monday and Tuesday.
The Kremlin grounds are a riot of exquisite color. We tried to get in today, but workers were on a lengthy “coffee break.” We hope to get in tomorrow.
Let’s Face It – Bubble Baths Rock
We arrived in Moscow early this morning, having taken the electric sleeper train from St. Pete. The sleeper train is sort of like a giant moving barbecue smoker – low, constant indoor heat; guys with beer bottles standing around; and smoke residue everywhere. If you’re old enough to walk in Russia, you’re old enough to smoke. One of our Buckner workers told us there were two types of restaurant sections here – smoking, and chain smoking.
Julia was seemingly unaffected by it. After no nap and hours of crying, she fell asleep before we left the station, and slept soundly all night.
Watching the countryside zoom by the windows was very cool, especially with the full moon. Unfortunately, our digital camera went kaput. We’re hoping it’s the battery. We’re getting a new one tomorrow.
We got her American Embassy-approved physical in Moscow today, then collapsed at the hotel for a 4.5 hour nap, badly needed by all three of us. She began whimpering when she awoke. I think it’s those “sleepy times” that remind her most that she’s no longer in her “dom” (home.) A snack and cartoons before a good evening walk chased the blues away. We found a park with play equipment and $2 hotdogs maybe 1 mi. away – liking that.
Julia’s first bath last night was very entertaining – for all of us. At first, she refused to get in the water with a repeated “nyet nyet nyet.” I expected this reaction, and quckly lifted her in and plopped her down with a “da da da.” She looked very surprised – the water was nice and warm. She loved the bubble bath. Stuck her face down in the water (there are swimming lessons in her future.) She had a lot of caked-in dirt, so, we changed out the water and added more bubbles. Tonight I had no trouble getting her in the tub.
Tomorrow we’re seeing Red Square. We’re hoping Lenin’s body isn’t out for a cleaning – we’d like to see that, too. If our digital camera isn’t working, we may break down and buy a disposable print camera (shudder.) Sunday is up in the air. We’re going to talk to our Buckner workers tomorrow and see how fast we can get the U.S. Embassy paperwork done, and getting her registered at the Russian Embassy. Kind of a drag being here for a weekend. Moscow is more expensive than St. Pete with none of its charms. It’s way more Soviet and much less European. Though Keith will find interesting things to see and do within walking distance of the hotel, I know that. He always does. He is about 10′ from me, ironing wet jeans to speed their drying. We’re not so much “staying” here as “camping” here.
Live a little this weekend. Try some bubble bath. Go ahead – put your face down in it.
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